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Posted By: Garnet, 3/22/2022 1:46:10 PM

When my mother called me in from play one afternoon to meet the man seated in our living room, her introduction was redundant—I immediately knew who he was. And, right off, I did not like him. His absence had been a painful matter in my life. The house that we lived in explained some of it. It was unfit for human tenancy—a decaying hovel with a leaking roof, creaking structures, and a termite infestation. I was ashamed to let anyone other than my closest friends know where I lived. I was 12 that year of 1956. This was the Jim Crow South where poverty was the default condition

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Reply 1 - Posted by: bgarrett 3/22/2022 1:59:14 PM (No. 1106840)
"And since violent crime offenders are overwhelmingly male, we are actually speaking about 6.5 percent of the US population, not 13 percent." 6.5% is half of the blacks but not young black criminals. Its more like 3% is committing that 44% of crimes
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Reply 2 - Posted by: sunshinehorses 3/22/2022 2:22:48 PM (No. 1106859)
While I commend this man's mother for divorcing a man that was violent, the advent of welfare made the whole absent father syndrome even worse. Probably more so for blacks, but this has affected all races, since the sperm donors feel that the state can take care of their children.
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Reply 3 - Posted by: columba 3/22/2022 2:33:40 PM (No. 1106868)
A darned GOOD post !!!
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Reply 4 - Posted by: raspberry 3/22/2022 2:38:44 PM (No. 1106877)
Well, good for Mr. Washington. And maybe he has done some good for his family and immediate community. We respect him for this. But the American community needs thousands and thousands, and maybe millions of fathers more like him. I no longer feel anywhere safe in the cities where I was born and grew up--Washington, D.C., and Baltimore, Md. And it is because of the terrible collapse of the black family, and their community. The Democrats under Lyndon Johnson's Great Society money programs told us this would solve poverty and moral collapse. But like other Democrat buy-outs they create more dependency on government and free the black male of any responsibility they may ever have felt. Yes, maybe too many of them prefer the "dark cave of slavery," after all. How sad.
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Reply 5 - Posted by: jalo1951 3/22/2022 2:43:14 PM (No. 1106884)
All you have to do is watch the now canceled Maury Povich show for a week to see what this out of control baby making has done to the black community. Especially the children. You can have sex without reproducing, duh. But it is not just the men. What about the women (girls) who are happy to have relations with any male who knocks on their front door. I can accept the fact that a woman has a child out of wedlock but when she has five kids by three different men by the time she is 24 I have a problem with that. I work in a large school system. I see these kids everyday. It is heart breaking. Why does the black community accept this behavior? Too many kids of every race and creed born out of wedlock. Every statistic ever kept on this kids shows a downward trend on everything they do. Of course these kids can move on, become educated, further their education, work, join the service, have a good and decent life. But like it or not they are few and far between. I have had sickly students in class and when asked why they are not at home it's because mama is having a boyfriend over today, or because we get free breakfast and lunch. They break my heart. For whatever reason we don't want to talk about the elephant in the room when it comes to so much of the crime we are seeing. They are black males but I see more and more women joining them.
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Reply 6 - Posted by: dwa 3/22/2022 2:43:51 PM (No. 1106885)
Interesting article. I have to question why the author is still a liberal. It is liberals, like those Blacks who rebuffed his views, who keep the idea of victimhood of Blacks alive and keep Blacks on the liberal plantation. Leftists, liberals and democrats have done very little to really help Blacks because it is not to their benefit to do so. All they do is say the "right" words and throw money at the symptoms while not addressing the underlying causes
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Reply 7 - Posted by: velirotta 3/22/2022 2:50:14 PM (No. 1106892)
Even Eldridge Cleaver, the Black Panther, pointed out in his book Soul on Ice the huge problem of absent husbands and fathers in black families. He would probably be lynched by his own people for saying that these days.
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Reply 8 - Posted by: F15 Gork 3/22/2022 2:52:14 PM (No. 1106897)
The Great Society eliminated the need for fathers and literally killed the family.
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Reply 9 - Posted by: felixcat 3/22/2022 2:56:15 PM (No. 1106900)
So there is still racism today. Yeah - in the hearts and minds of individuals. There is no government sanctioned racism, unless one considers Affirmative Action racism. Perhaps this author should have all those black preachers out there start hyping the importance of the father in a family. I really don't care about the prob less of the balks community when I see the likes of Kentanji, Oprah, etc still whining about how unfair the world is to them.
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Reply 10 - Posted by: FunOne 3/22/2022 3:16:32 PM (No. 1106914)
Another war lost: The War on Poverty. As previous posters have identified, LBJ's massive spending social program just made things worse. Typical of democrats: Throw money at a "problem". Effort fails, money wasted. Move on to the next social problem. Repeat!
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Reply 11 - Posted by: Timber Queen 3/22/2022 4:02:18 PM (No. 1106948)
The destruction of the family was a feature not a bug of the Progressive Great Society. While welfare removed husbands and fathers from the home; feminism removed wives and mothers by promising fulfillment through a "career", or out of necessity due to the absent man. The family is the bedrock of any civilization. Over the last century, our granite bedrock has been covered by a thick bog of debris layers from discarded Judaeo-Christian values. The granite is still there, we only have to excavate the muck. It took us one hundred years to get to this place, but clean-ups go faster than build-ups...with the right equipment. Our excavators are a return to God and a willingness to do His Will as revealed in Holy Scriptures. Live your best life, be an example to others and help them along the way.
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Reply 12 - Posted by: DVC 3/22/2022 4:28:35 PM (No. 1106981)
Not "fathers" but sperm donors.
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Reply 13 - Posted by: Lazyman 3/22/2022 4:34:45 PM (No. 1106987)
Staying away from the 3% doing most of the crime in the US is not racist but simply good risk management. The solutions will have to come from inside their community but as this guy says they don't want to own it.
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Reply 14 - Posted by: smaricic 3/22/2022 4:39:56 PM (No. 1106991)
Great article. If Moynihan were alive today, the statistics for WHITES would make him cry. The numbers for Blacks would crush him.
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Reply 15 - Posted by: lakerman1 3/22/2022 5:04:57 PM (No. 1107000)
And to add to #5's excellent comments, if you watch a few episodes of Maury Povich, you will see girls in their teens who have given birth because their boyfriend wanted to have a baby, without commitment or support, and the girlfriend went along with the idea. to make her man happy. And then her man goes on to the next girl, to repeat the same. On occasion, young men appear on Maury who have fathered 20 or more babies.. with 20 or more girls. And those men are proud of that fact.
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Reply 16 - Posted by: lftrn97 3/22/2022 5:15:14 PM (No. 1107011)
How about offering out of wedlock birth mothers a bonus if there's a father's name and SS# on the birth certificate. Johnson's great society did the opposite.
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Reply 17 - Posted by: raspberry 3/22/2022 5:36:49 PM (No. 1107020)
It has been reported reliably that one of Lyndon Johnson's private comments on the Great Society scheme was that "If we pass this legislation Democrats will own the ******* for a hundred years."
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Reply 18 - Posted by: Catherine 3/22/2022 6:19:20 PM (No. 1107045)
I rarely read entire articles here. I read a bit then go to comments. I did read this entire article. One of the best I have ever read. And so true. It won't get any traction, tho. There is too much money in being a victim or racism.
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Reply 19 - Posted by: czechlist 3/22/2022 6:56:09 PM (No. 1107081)
I have lived with blacks in my neighborhood, worked with and for blacks and managed them for 45 years. They have always been regular people with all the good bad and ugly as any other people I have known. Yeah, they can exhibit some bizarre behavior when they congregate but rarely cause any trouble - no more than the White rednecks, Hispanics or Asians. The problems seem to be confined to the dim inner cities and I have noticed that those who escape do not go back to help their bros and sistas
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Reply 20 - Posted by: doctorfixit 3/23/2022 2:35:48 AM (No. 1107326)
Socialism's Top Targets for Death are Faith, Family, Freedom, and Private Property. The left's War On Males began many decades ago. Black culture tolerates infidelity, promiscuity and abandonment, so socialist welfare programs just made it that much easier to shirk responsibility.
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Reply 21 - Posted by: mifla 3/23/2022 5:39:16 AM (No. 1107368)
The War On Poverty is over. Poverty won and the prime casuality was the black family unit.
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