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Why Children Need Risk, Fear, and Excitement
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Posted By: Judy W., 2/28/2024 9:11:00 AM

We parents are caught in a paradox. We desperately want to keep our children safe and ensure their success. We are also often terrified that they will get hurt and that they will fail—so we do everything we can to prevent that from happening. Yet many of those very efforts to manage our fears have paradoxically reduced our children’s safety and their odds of success. For over two decades, I have researched children’s development, injury prevention, and outdoor risky play. I have learned that when we prioritize children’s play(especially the kind of play that involves some risk and lack of supervision) and the freedom to play how they choose,

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Reply 1 - Posted by: stevendm 2/28/2024 9:26:43 AM (No. 1666808)
Amen
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Reply 2 - Posted by: privateer 2/28/2024 9:38:02 AM (No. 1666814)
Up to, but not including, microagressions. But seriously, docile, torpid, physically limited. risk-averse, and timid, is the ideal type of Young Pioneer destined to grow up to be the approved citizen-subject. This is not unintentional. Keep your kids in cotton wool; we'll enlist Chow Men to fight our wars abroad. Or conquer at home.
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Reply 3 - Posted by: Mizz Fixxit 2/28/2024 10:15:27 AM (No. 1666833)
In one of the first issues of Sports Illustrated, maybe the premiere issue, there was an article entitled, “The Chase.” The premise of the piece was, if kids hit your car with snowballs, you have the obligation to give the kids a thrill by stopping your car and chasing them on foot.
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Reply 4 - Posted by: smokincol 2/28/2024 10:25:20 AM (No. 1666836)
and the best way to accomplish those hazards in life is through contact sports where = you learn to take a hit with the possibility of giving a hit in return which = makes it just like "life" where there are no promises and you earn what you get from hard work and dedication to doing your best at whatever you do
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Reply 5 - Posted by: DVC 2/28/2024 10:47:46 AM (No. 1666848)
It's called growing up. And you learn about the world. I broke a leg at age five playing. It healed up just fine, and no harm done, some lessons learned about gravity and jumping off of high things. Helicopter parents prevent children from learning life's lessons early on, and so now these sad victims of their parent's overzealous protectiveness arrive as calendar adults with childlike ideas about many things. And the world actually is a dangerous place. And no matter how you may whine, the laws of physics will be strictly enforced. And doing something stupid will get you killed, and you are likely to be doing more "jackass" (of video fame) stuff when you are 20 than when you are 7. So - two possibilities when you don't learn about taking risks sensibly. One you get the jackass stunt videos more and more. Or you get frightened rabbits scared of their shadows and afraid to go out into the world, and looking to hide in their phone screens, and "live" via texting and watching videos. Smart phones were probably THE single most destructive devices ever visited upon humanity.
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Reply 6 - Posted by: mc squared 2/28/2024 10:56:30 AM (No. 1666856)
Helicopter parents and a new exciting holiday in October: Trick Or Trunk. Where parents gather and exchange low gluten candy for their kids.
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Reply 7 - Posted by: SkyKing1222 2/28/2024 11:36:57 AM (No. 1666911)
Two decades ago I was watching my middle school son play Lyon’s football. A young mother was horrified that her ex-husband had enrolled their son into the program. I explained to her that, “broken bones are better than broken spirits “ It was amazing to see how differently she viewed her son’s participation with that perspective.
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Reply 8 - Posted by: Noj15 2/28/2024 1:09:20 PM (No. 1666971)
When we were wee kids, our folks would tell us to "come home before dark." When my kids would fall down and then look up to see if we were watching, they would start to snivel, so my wife would hear them hit the deck and tell me hurriedly, "don't LOOK at them." Never saw a tear after that. Nowadays, no so much, eh?
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Reply 9 - Posted by: DiegoDude 2/28/2024 1:27:39 PM (No. 1666990)
It's how you learn not to do stupid stuff a second time.
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