'Nobody told me how lonely being a man
is': Transgender man weeps while explaining
how much easier it was to make friends
with 'open, vulnerable women' - and says
he can see why suicide rate among males
is higher
Daily Mail (UK),
by
Claudia Aoraha
Original Article
Posted By: Imright,
6/12/2023 1:30:42 AM
A clip of a weeping transgender man has swept the internet, after he cried while saying how much harder it was to strike up meaningful friendships as a man than it had been as a woman.
James Barnes, who was born female but transitioned to male eight years ago, works as a life coach to help others going through life changes. He recently opened up about the challenges he's faced since becoming a man - especially loneliness.
Breaking down in tears, Barnes said: 'No one told me how lonely being a man is.
Reply 1 - Posted by:
mean Gene 6/12/2023 1:46:51 AM (No. 1490007)
They're implanting Adam's Apples in women now?
Otherwise, that's always been a male.
15 people like this.
Reply 2 - Posted by:
Flyball Dogs 6/12/2023 2:04:00 AM (No. 1490010)
Somebody is scamming somebody.
There is no way the man (on the right in the “after” pics) was ever a woman.
No way.
(And BTW: what does “transgender” even mean?!?)
21 people like this.
Reply 3 - Posted by:
DVC 6/12/2023 2:37:13 AM (No. 1490012)
If your mentally ill....life is difficult. And who wants to "strike up a conversation" with a bizarro who clearly isn't really a man?
Sorry, not a lot of sympathy for this extremely sad, bad, stupid life choice.
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Reply 4 - Posted by:
SweetPea3 6/12/2023 5:11:45 AM (No. 1490036)
Ooooooh, what a bummer. 'Penis envy' gone wrong.
16 people like this.
Reply 5 - Posted by:
BirdsNest 6/12/2023 5:26:25 AM (No. 1490040)
Just another attention whore.
18 people like this.
Reply 6 - Posted by:
Highlander 6/12/2023 5:58:44 AM (No. 1490048)
Both sexes experience loneliness in their own ways. Being a freak is the loneliest of all.
34 people like this.
Reply 7 - Posted by:
chance_232 6/12/2023 6:50:48 AM (No. 1490061)
Oh..I absolutely believe that this person was a female. He's far prettier than most men and the mannerisms are female. Not the exaggerated effeminate mannerisms of a flaming wannabe.
Before we all pile on and make fun of this person, listen to what he/she is saying. He is claiming that he had no idea how lonely or hard being a man is. He/she can't make friends like she could as a female.
Several thoughts. In the past, a person wanting to transition was required to live and dress as the opposite sex for x amount of time before the knives would come out. Years of psychological therapy was required. So the medical community did a disservice by allowing this person to transition without being properly prepared for the incoming parade of ugly.
She probably believed that men and women are exactly alike, think the same, respond the same and have the same priorities. This is what the left and the schools teach.
Men aren't typically as touchy Feely with their friends as women. Had she lived as a man prior, she would gave figured this out before going under the knife. Part of it is that many real men just don't want any part of a manufactured male with all of its drama.
This is what happens when we normalize a mental condition, indoctrinate youth, turn a life altering procedure into a fad and gloss over the ramifications to those who have been intentionally confused.
Personally. I feel bad for this person.
31 people like this.
Reply 8 - Posted by:
NancyD 6/12/2023 6:53:47 AM (No. 1490062)
You cannot "become" a male or female. This pronoun crap is so stupid and just because someone "uses" a pronoun doesn't make it so. The lies must stop, reality needs to settle in and people need to deal with mental illness.
38 people like this.
Reply 9 - Posted by:
Bur Oak 6/12/2023 7:04:00 AM (No. 1490067)
A mentally ill person is a life coach to help other mentally ill people. The insanity spreads. This is how society gets destroyed.
27 people like this.
Reply 10 - Posted by:
halfnorsk 6/12/2023 7:17:27 AM (No. 1490077)
Of course it's lonely for him/her/it. Because no real man is interested in being friends with a pretend man.
24 people like this.
Reply 11 - Posted by:
texaspast 6/12/2023 7:38:41 AM (No. 1490087)
It's even harder when you are a 'neither - nor'.
20 people like this.
Reply 12 - Posted by:
JackBurton 6/12/2023 7:50:53 AM (No. 1490096)
Lonely? I'd say 'grow a pair' but...
...we all know that's not possible.
20 people like this.
Reply 13 - Posted by:
Lawsy0 6/12/2023 7:57:34 AM (No. 1490103)
Translated from trans gobbledygook: Women are easy because they are vapid. Apparently nobody stuffed this guy into a 2nd floor high school locker!
8 people like this.
Reply 14 - Posted by:
Arrowhead 6/12/2023 8:05:31 AM (No. 1490114)
God don't make lonely women!!!
5 people like this.
Reply 15 - Posted by:
ControlFreak 6/12/2023 8:18:12 AM (No. 1490124)
Ok I admit I didn’t read the entire article, but how did its wife get pregnant?
7 people like this.
Reply 16 - Posted by:
hisself 6/12/2023 8:44:29 AM (No. 1490145)
"Transgender man weeps"
Real men don't weep!
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Reply 17 - Posted by:
bigfatslob 6/12/2023 8:45:22 AM (No. 1490146)
This is only what this dumpy looking woman wants you to know. There must be some deeper mental demons in a life chosen by this person which will never end. This 'stuck in the middle' life must be exhausting for these people with a real mental illness.
I don't understand but will not help their lie by playing along with 'pronouns'. This is a female who made some serious decision now wants to shed a tear over it. Too much transgenderism in the news lately but they are railroading the gay movement but no t in a good direction.
5 people like this.
Reply 18 - Posted by:
Venturer 6/12/2023 8:47:18 AM (No. 1490149)
The old adage Man up, did not come from fake men crying about being lonely.
7 people like this.
Reply 19 - Posted by:
red1066 6/12/2023 9:03:52 AM (No. 1490161)
Prefect life coach for transpeople. He's regretting ever going through the whole ordeal.
8 people like this.
Reply 20 - Posted by:
bpl40 6/12/2023 9:22:21 AM (No. 1490180)
James or not. It’s not a HE.
4 people like this.
Reply 21 - Posted by:
NorthernDog 6/12/2023 9:29:35 AM (No. 1490182)
What did she/he expect? The Woke crowd says men are 'toxic', responsible for all the ills in the world, but are expected to rush in and rescue everyone when the going gets tough.
6 people like this.
Reply 22 - Posted by:
MarkTwain 6/12/2023 9:37:51 AM (No. 1490187)
I'm reminded of a line from a Neil Young song, "Ain't it funny how it feels when you're finding out it's real?"
5 people like this.
Reply 23 - Posted by:
Birddog 6/12/2023 9:56:18 AM (No. 1490205)
'I had closer friendships with random women I met in the bathroom at clubs before I transitioned because of how open women are, than I've had in my 8 years of transitioning because women are just so much more vulnerable and deep than men."
Uhm...Married men do NOT have close freindships with random women they meet in Dance Club bathrooms.
His "pregnant wife" could prolly explain that to "Him"...certainly ANY other pregnant wife could.
"I am a fully emotionally mature man"...No, you are not.
"Life coach/Influencer"? People PAY to gets this things advice?
8 people like this.
Reply 24 - Posted by:
Roads 6/12/2023 10:24:07 AM (No. 1490220)
Well you can always go back to hiking up your skirt and moving forward.
2 people like this.
Reply 25 - Posted by:
Italiano 6/12/2023 10:25:09 AM (No. 1490221)
Mental illness has its downside.
4 people like this.
Reply 26 - Posted by:
Strike3 6/12/2023 10:33:29 AM (No. 1490225)
Life Coach? I can't imagine paying to take advice from a mentally ill confused person, unless you are already insane to begin with. I can see why he "transitioned" from the woman that he was and still is. That's a fairly nice beard, if it's real. I'll bet the penis is a doozy.
2 people like this.
Reply 27 - Posted by:
joew9 6/12/2023 10:34:48 AM (No. 1490227)
A real man might cry like that if he spent 6 months rebuilding a 5.3L V8 and then it seized during the test drive.
But no other time.
7 people like this.
#1 A decade of steroids will cause a woman to grow an Adam's apple, get a bigger nose, and a more prominent chin.
Go look at the face of any given steroid-using female bodybuilder from the 1980s.
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Reply 29 - Posted by:
504pc 6/12/2023 11:21:45 AM (No. 1490260)
The dirty little secret they don’t tell you is if you’re a trans woman nobody wants you. Lesbians don’t want you (there’s numerous discussions on why it’s unfair that lesbians won’t date trans women), gay men don’t want you and straight men certainly don’t want you. There’s nary a word about that aspect.
3 people like this.
Reply 30 - Posted by:
columba 6/12/2023 11:34:13 AM (No. 1490269)
When one has rejected God, his life becomes quite lonely.
As we all know: God created TWO sexes, which are assigned (by God) before birth.
5 people like this.
Reply 31 - Posted by:
MindMadeUp 6/12/2023 11:42:21 AM (No. 1490275)
Yes, it's probably very hard "being a man" when you are not a man.
2 people like this.
Reply 32 - Posted by:
Starboard_side 6/12/2023 12:35:34 PM (No. 1490321)
But, aren't you being your true self now?
0 people like this.
Reply 33 - Posted by:
DVC 6/12/2023 12:43:29 PM (No. 1490336)
The mentally ill are not interesting.
1 person likes this.
Reply 34 - Posted by:
LC Chihuahua 6/12/2023 12:47:29 PM (No. 1490340)
What's wrong with being alone? I lived by myself for over 25 years. No regrets. A few good friends and I was set. Always had things to do. Only moved in with someone a few years ago. I will never understand why so many people seem to be afraid of being alone.
1 person likes this.
Reply 35 - Posted by:
Faithfully 6/15/2023 7:30:16 PM (No. 1492782)
Why would any short, puney female think she can make it in a "Man's World"? It is hard enough for real men to deal with uber masculine men on a daily basis. Mental illness.
0 people like this.
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