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Posted By: ladydawgfan, 5/1/2022 1:23:00 AM

The “working woman” culture has been toxic to motherhood. I can already feel the rage emanating from some mothers. Hear me out. My mother is a Baby Boomer. She came from a culture in which mothers staying home with children was the norm (which it is in most parts of the world, by the way) and mothers going to work while their children went to babysitters seemed very out of place. Her generation fought that notion. They wanted the right to be seen as equal partners in financially providing for their families. They wanted the right to go make a career and conquer their chosen professions

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My mom stayed at home to raise her kids until my younger brother started middle school. Then, and only then did she take a part time position at our local hospital as a nurses aide. Before that, if we were sick, she was there to make us feel better. If we had school plays or concerts, she was there to attend them. We were afforded the luxury of walking home for lunch and finding hot soup and toasted cheese sandwiches on a cold winter day. She also my Girl Scout leader and the cookie mom for our troop. And because she was home during the day, she was a "Helping Hand" mom, indicated by the bright neon orange hand cutout in our front window, so if any of the neighborhood kids needed a bandaid, a cup of water or a safe harbor and a phone call to their parents, Mom was there. I will not criticize any woman who feels the need to work while raising her kids. Both of my sisters needed to in order to help pay bills and their kids turned out fine. However, I will be eternally grateful for the sacrifices my parents made for their children, regardless of how difficult it was for them.

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Reply 1 - Posted by: DVC 5/1/2022 1:24:38 AM (No. 1143042)
Good advice.
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Reply 2 - Posted by: jalo1951 5/1/2022 1:50:44 AM (No. 1143046)
Too many women having babies out of wedlock (we all know how that is turning out) and unfortunately too many married couples cannot live on one salary. And I am not talking about the families who take fancy long vacations or own two SUVs. I’m talking regular folks. The best years of my life were when I stayed home with my son until he went to 1st grade. Then I got a job at his school. There is joy in raising your child. We have cheapened the job of being a stay at home mother.
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Reply 3 - Posted by: sanspeur 5/1/2022 2:15:33 AM (No. 1143053)
if the gov’t sisn’t hoover up so much of YOUR $$$ , a family could live nicely on one salary . It is a political decision to tax families as they do and to subsidize less successful single parent arrangements…
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Reply 4 - Posted by: Stencil 5/1/2022 3:21:09 AM (No. 1143056)
Beautiful tribute, Mother's are the foundation of more than just human kind but of most warm-blooded species as well. That instinct to protect those she bore. is bedrock to life.
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Reply 5 - Posted by: pros7767 5/1/2022 5:53:20 AM (No. 1143073)
"The hand that rocks the cradle, rules the world". Movie "Mom's Night Out"
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Reply 6 - Posted by: NancyD 5/1/2022 7:50:15 AM (No. 1143121)
When we found out we were pregnant, our first conversation was about me staying home, I retired from work 2 weeks before our first baby was born. We had 9 months to adjust our living expenses and cut back. It was a priority for us and we did it. I stayed home and raised 3 kids and ran the household, we moved 3 times as my husband needed to in order to advance within the company. He still says he wouldn't be able to do his job if I weren't home raising the kids and managing the household. I would get the comment "what do you do all day" in a condescending tone. Ha! I was doing everything working moms couldn't do. We all make choices and decisions, How you live your life is up to you.
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Reply 7 - Posted by: columba 5/1/2022 10:13:59 AM (No. 1143273)
A father, a mother and children. How unique.
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Reply 8 - Posted by: smcchk 5/1/2022 10:41:07 AM (No. 1143309)
Women would say, if they stayed at home, that they were doing it for their children. True, but I would say I was doing it for me! I was blessed to be able to stay at home and raise my children and my husband got to come home (most of the time) to a well-running household.
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Reply 9 - Posted by: farmwife 5/1/2022 11:13:15 AM (No. 1143336)
The value of a mother in the home cannot be measured. Sometimes just being there makes all the difference. It takes sacrifices, but it is worth it and should be valued by all of society.
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Reply 10 - Posted by: sjredwood 5/1/2022 11:41:21 AM (No. 1143377)
Best read of the day! Nice observation about the child who felt a sense of safety coming home from school to his mom. Think how it feels to come home to a dark, empty house as an adult. Think how it feels to come home to a lit home with a meal cooking and someone happy to see you (whether you are coming home to your husband or wife or partner or room-mate, frankly!) Now do children. Coming home to an empty house. We have become so stupid as a society. So incredibly stupid.
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Reply 11 - Posted by: Corndoggies 5/1/2022 7:18:12 PM (No. 1143685)
We have a large Mexican population in our area and it’s been this way since the 70’s. A lot of the Mexican girls grew up and married local farm boys and they’re staying home and poppin out kids left and right. One young woman is a good friend of my oldest stepdaughter and she and her husband have 4 blond hair blue eyed babies with a fishy on the way. Actually, now that I think about it, her mom is white but her dad was an illegal. I’m all for moms staying home with their babies, I just find it amusing how things work out.
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