Thoughts on Coming Home; Faith, Loss,
and Belonging
Substack,
by
G Frank Ferris
Original Article
Posted By: Boomer in the Basement,
12/24/2025 5:56:21 PM
Written on Christmas Eve, 2025. A personal reflection on faith, loss, ancestry, and finding my way home. This Christmas, life is really different for me. Since September, I’ve been attending RCIA, or Catechism, with the aim of converting to Catholicism and joining the church. Presently, I’m about 40% of the way through, and to say it’s been eye-opening would be the boldest understatement I’ve ever made.
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Reply 1 - Posted by:
bamboozle 12/24/2025 6:27:51 PM (No. 2045142)
May God bless you on your journey. Welcome aɓoard.
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Reply 2 - Posted by:
Calamity Kate 12/24/2025 6:46:26 PM (No. 2045147)
Welcome home.
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Peregrine 12/24/2025 7:36:17 PM (No. 2045154)
Welcome.
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Luandir 12/24/2025 8:16:03 PM (No. 2045162)
Prayers this Christmas and going forward for your continued spiritual growth.
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Timber Queen 12/25/2025 12:31:55 AM (No. 2045197)
Yes, Welcome Home, Mr. Ferris! This article brought back so many memories for me. I started teaching Catechism to 6th graders for four years, then moved up to Confirmation Preparation for the high schoolers. I did two two-year groups. Then I moved up to adult RCIA, and taught the faith for another ten years. RCIA was much more fulfilling than teaching teenagers!
Shepherding adults into the Catholic Faith is an awesome task. Their questions are well thought out and sometimes very challenging. I learned more about my Faith in those years than in twelve years of Catholic school. The moment of greatest excitement was witnessing their reception of the Sacraments at the Easter Vigil Mass, when the veil between Heaven and Earth is the thinnest. I love being Catholic and part of a two thousand year experience, and to open that experience to others.
The top shelf of my bookshelf has many mementos my students have gifted me; a statue of Mary, a statue of St. Anthony of Padua (our parish saint), votive candles for the Sacred Heart and Our Lady of Guadalupe, a hand-knotted rosary, and a big homemade card from my first Confirmation class. Faith friendships are the best!
Welcome Home to Rome!
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texaspast 12/25/2025 1:27:04 AM (No. 2045204)
I wish I could consider the Catholic (capital C) church the original and only body that is the bride of Christ. But I really just can't get past the idolization of Mary. And yes, it is idolization. She is not God. She is not a conduit to God. She was a vessel used by God to bring his son to the earth to save the earth. But then all of us who have welcomed Jesus into our lives, our hearts and our being are the vessels which God can use to bring Jesus to the rest of the world for the salvation of the world. Jesus is the ONLY focus. He is our only intercessor and advocate to the Father.
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Timber Queen 12/25/2025 2:07:39 AM (No. 2045205)
#6 - Mary is not idolized. She is shown reverence because she was the Mother of Jesus Christ, God, in His earthly Incarnation. Because she was destined to be the Mother of the Incarnated God, she was born "immaculate" without the stain of Original Sin as stated by several Old Testament prophets. She is the virgin who gave birth, for she was impregnated by the Holy Spirit, not by a man. Jesus respected his Mother and fulfilled her requests, the wedding feast at Cana comes to mind. Mary stood at the foot of the cross and witnessed her Son's agonizing death. Mary was present in the upper room when the Holy Spirit came to rest upon the Apostles and her. She was part of the witnessing by the early Church. Many people, even Catholics, are not aware that there is a second empty tomb. When she died and the Apostles went to her tomb a few days later, they found her body gone. Catholics profess that Mary was assumed bodily into Heaven. Her earthly appearances range through the centuries and all throughout the world, not just Fatima, or Lourdes, or Mexico City. Look deeply into Mary's life and what you find will astound you!
Holy Mary, Mother of God, pray for us sinners now and at the hour of our death. Amen.
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Reply 8 - Posted by:
Ebenezer 12/25/2025 7:46:07 AM (No. 2045229)
No. 6, read John 19: 26-27
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Reply 9 - Posted by:
lakerman1 12/25/2025 9:04:05 AM (No. 2045243)
#6, consider this.
A person dies, and in judgment, Jesus says, "Sorry, Charlie, you were too nice to my mother. No soup for you"
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Reply 10 - Posted by:
kidsmom 12/25/2025 9:22:46 AM (No. 2045250)
I, too, was many versions of Protestant before converting to Catholicism 40+ years ago. I converted mainly because I could never reconcile the 5th chapter of the book of John with what I was teaching my 6th graders in pentecostal Sunday School. The Eucharist is Christ--body, blood, soul, and divinity--and he shares Himself with us at each Mass. Holy Communion is not an exercise, it's a sharing in the divine person of Christ. I also found out that I had been baptized Catholic but both of my parents had left the church, so I wasn't raised in the faith. I was definitely a "seeker." After I converted, my parents came back; my brother and sister also came into the church, and all of my children were raised in the church. We're all home.
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