Baby boomers and 'silent generation' blame
self-checkouts for worsening loneliness
Daily Mail (UK),
by
Fiona Connor
Original Article
Posted By: Imright,
9/10/2023 5:06:32 PM
Baby boomers and the 'silent generation' are blaming supermarket self-checkouts for increasing loneliness and wiping out one of their last remaining social interactions.
When 83-year-old Marliss Myers lost her husband, it was her local Albertsons cashier who provided solace.
Workers like Sharon Hechler are determined to maintain that special bond with the elderly, even as almost half of checkout lanes in the US are now automated.
'We all need that human, personal touch,' Hechler told the Los Angeles Times.
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Reply 1 - Posted by:
reefdiver 9/10/2023 5:29:18 PM (No. 1553493)
Loneliness is much more present than most people realize, especially for those living alone without any family that cares. Someone you know may need a kind word now and then.
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Reply 2 - Posted by:
rockeysroomie 9/10/2023 5:36:12 PM (No. 1553499)
I love self checkout. I f you are lonely go join a support group or take up golf or Bridge. If you must, stand in line with the live checkout person. When you are being checked out go ahead start shooting the breeze. Geez.
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Reply 3 - Posted by:
plomke 9/10/2023 5:40:50 PM (No. 1553505)
Could not disagree more.
One more "conversation" with a pimply face tattooed,nose ringed,purple haired,trans freak cashier at the local "groceteria" -(supermarket with a sit down Starbucks), and I'll be the one ready for the straight jacket...
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Reply 4 - Posted by:
Kate318 9/10/2023 6:19:57 PM (No. 1553529)
Oh, please. Who came up with this drivel? We boomers are just fine with self-reliance. We were raised on it.
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Reply 5 - Posted by:
stablemoney 9/10/2023 6:27:36 PM (No. 1553536)
It has become increasingly unnecessary to interact with humans. Self checkout, pay at the pump, work from home, bills paid from home computer, everything ordered online that is delivered to the package room, and they send you an email notice. Maybe it is for the best, as we seem to increasingly have nothing in common. Half of my state are illegals, and I do not understand the language or culture of the other half.
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Reply 6 - Posted by:
DVC 9/10/2023 6:50:43 PM (No. 1553553)
If you think that getting a checkout girl to ring up your stuff is a "social interaction"......just Wow, how sad for you.
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Reply 7 - Posted by:
Proud Texan 9/10/2023 7:36:44 PM (No. 1553572)
I self-serve with gas. When I go into a store where self-checkout is the only choice, I leave. These store can give tons of money to leftist causes, they can durn sure hire local people to check me out! They charge the same price either way, anyhow.
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Reply 8 - Posted by:
Mushroom 9/10/2023 7:54:16 PM (No. 1553580)
This past May I lost my spouse of 31yrs. I live way out in the sticks and I have zero local friends. I do not count on a Walmart/Kroger cashier to fill my loneliness. I am way too busy learning to live on less and less without canning skills under the current admin. I have more than enough toys to keep me busy.
Do I get lonely? Yes! Every single night I reach over and she isn't there. A large pillow is filling in for now.
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Reply 9 - Posted by:
Kate318 9/10/2023 8:23:32 PM (No. 1553593)
Oh, #9, I’m so sorry for your loss.
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Reply 10 - Posted by:
chumley 9/10/2023 8:52:18 PM (No. 1553612)
I love dealing with people. That includes clerks and checkout girls, secretaries, the mail man, the neighbors, most everyone. It makes my day better to see a smile, and back when I was working I loved hearing about everyone's lives. Life is empty without people in it.
And I hate the self checkouts. I dont work there.
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Reply 11 - Posted by:
earlybird 9/10/2023 9:21:37 PM (No. 1553625)
Exactly why I like self-check. No getting stuck behind a line of needy lonelies...
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Reply 12 - Posted by:
DVC 9/10/2023 9:28:16 PM (No. 1553630)
Re #9, my heart goes out for your loss. As to 'without canning skills', while I learned from my mother, I'm sure that you can learn yourself. Ask around, someone nearby must know, if not, look for books. And start with tomatoes...they are about mistake proof, being acid enough by themselves to make them safe. Don't try meats, they are difficult and require high pressure canning cookers...expensive. Veggies are easy and only take a 'water bath' canning process, easy to learn, pretty easy to do if you can get local produce in season for good prices. And I love making bread, although the only way to make it cheaper than most store breads is to buy flour at Sam's Club in 25 lb or 50 lb bags....a bit unhandy but a new, small trash can with a tight lid will hold it. Cooking for one is less fun than for two, unfortunately, but it really CAN save a lot if you are living close to the line.
Best wishes.
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Reply 13 - Posted by:
earlybird 9/10/2023 9:32:10 PM (No. 1553634)
Re #9, I am so sorry. First you need time to grieve. A lively puppy might help for a while...or a cuddly kitty. Later you might have to find some pals...maybe in similar circumstances. Give yourself some peaceful time.
I found Lucianne durig a dreadfully lonely time when I could not sleep. It helped. The prayer group at Conservative Treehouse was also very kind and comforting. Real people. Warmvirtualn hugs...and tive yourself healing time... She's still witrh you.
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Reply 14 - Posted by:
earlybird 9/10/2023 9:34:03 PM (No. 1553636)
That last word was "warm virtual hugs". Bad hands.
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Reply 15 - Posted by:
DEnforcer 9/10/2023 10:09:56 PM (No. 1553640)
I have been behind many folks, generally seasoned citizens, who carry on a lively conversation with the cashier. It’s their day out, so human interaction is more important for them than courtesy to the shoppers behind them. That being said, I always hark back to comedian Rodman’s comments on self-checkout. https://youtu.be/dxwWKaL1iCQ?si=efc65cdhP0qvffDn
His questions: Am I qualified? Do I need special training?
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Reply 16 - Posted by:
bogeegolf 9/10/2023 10:18:22 PM (No. 1553641)
I am really surprised by the attitude here. So some people would like to walk into a store and have no human contact at all? Maybe we can all put our masks back on and never see a smile or have any exchange or pleasantry with anyone. In and out like a zombie. I am by no means lonely and I don’t talk much but I would miss seeing actual people where I shop and throughout the years you get to know a few of them.
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Reply 17 - Posted by:
msjena 9/10/2023 11:42:55 PM (No. 1553666)
I love not having to interact with often surly, rarely friendly check-out personnel.
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Reply 18 - Posted by:
padiva 9/11/2023 12:12:42 AM (No. 1553677)
I work at a big box store. My job title is cashier but I do at least a dozen other tasks that are not directly related to the cashiering tasks. Yep, I have to clean up the messes the customers made with the merchandise.
Here's a cure for loneliness. (LOL) Three months ago, a 'customer' tried to return an expensive item that was not our merchandise with some sort of phony receipt. The supervisor 'waited' on him, went to the office 'to get the money' and clue in the general manager. She told him that the item could not be returned. He got angry. Mall security and the police got involved. Guy gave an incorrect name and birthday twice. He was arrested. He was doing these phony returns at many stores. He is still experiencing extended hospitality at the county prison. Word is that there is at least one detainer from another state for this guy.
What a way to make new friends.
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Reply 19 - Posted by:
JimBob 9/11/2023 12:18:57 AM (No. 1553679)
I'm in the 'like to talk to a live cashier' group here.
Over the years, I have struck up acquaintances with many of the workers and cashiers at our local Walmart, as well as the auto parts stores, hardware stores, and other places that I shop.
It's nice to swap a story or a joke..... but ONLY if there is no-one waiting behind me!
If there's someone behind me, I say a quick "Hi!" and "See ya next time!", as chit-chatting while someone is waiting is, in my opinion, VERY rude!
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Reply 20 - Posted by:
Trigger2 9/11/2023 4:16:53 AM (No. 1553698)
I never go to self-checkout. I always go to the remaining cashier no matter how long the line is.
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Reply 21 - Posted by:
mifla 9/11/2023 4:59:40 AM (No. 1553713)
Walmart is losing tons of money from people scanning only some of their items in the self checkout lanes.
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Reply 22 - Posted by:
nwcudagal 9/11/2023 5:47:30 AM (No. 1553737)
At my neighborhood Albertsons there is usually only one real person at a check out. She can't put down her phone long enough to be helpful.
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Reply 23 - Posted by:
SweetPea3 9/11/2023 6:03:04 AM (No. 1553739)
Try going to church, volunteering, or take up Mah Jongg.
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Reply 24 - Posted by:
raphaela 9/11/2023 8:32:50 AM (No. 1553814)
I am never lonely - I have three men folks to take care of. They keep me busy, or rather I do by trying to make them smile each day. But I love to talk to folks at the grocery stores or wherever I go. I like to learn about their lives and their concerns. Then I can pray for them and their circumstances. My hubby thinks I'm flirting but I just want to get to know people and what matters to them. It lightens their day and mine. I'm not lonely but I think many people are, especially young ones. And everyone wants to believe they are important to someone even if it's just a customer. I do not try to hold up the line and I mostly use self-checkout. But there are lots of different types of employees to speak to and to share a kind word. I don't think God placed us here just to get our chores finished efficiently.
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Reply 25 - Posted by:
jdano 9/11/2023 8:35:18 AM (No. 1553816)
I agree. Most days the only interaction I have is with a cashier. The older the better.
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