A lousy myth about moms,
kids and work makes a comeback.
Republicans are running with it.
Washington Post,
by
Helaine Olen
Original Article
Posted By: fourpmfox,
5/9/2021 7:48:15 PM
The April unemployment numbers showed that women got hit very hard. Almost all of the job gains went to men. The female workforce remains where it was in the late 1980s.
As if on cue, a lousy old myth about women, motherhood and work is making a return, too: that many of these women are better off for cutting their (paid) work hours and downscaling their professional aspirations in favor of tending to family responsibilities.
Reply 1 - Posted by:
DVC 5/9/2021 7:58:49 PM (No. 780238)
A mother's most important job in her life is getting her children born, properly fed, housed and raised. Nothing that she will ever do is even remotely close, unless it might be to protect them from deadly danger in an emergency, or every day.
I have female family members who have raised children and been naval aviators, teachers and more, and others who have decided that they would stay home and attend to their children full time. Ultimately, the children are more important in their formative years than anything else. Once the kids are safely "launched", whatever and whenever she decided that to be, then .....whatever.
Best wishes to all mothers. I know that I owe mine more than I was ever able to repay or even adequately explain during her lifetime.
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Reply 2 - Posted by:
jalo1951 5/9/2021 8:59:06 PM (No. 780280)
My God, the libs really do think we are nothing more than "birthing machines" with no emotional attachment to the beings we "birth". My husband and I gave up a lot so that I could stay home and take care of our son. I had a miscarriage before his birth, had conception problems for several years, then developed toxemia and was bed ridden for three months. It all ended in a c section. I would not give up those years taking care of him for any amount of money. I cherished the time we had together. We are seeing the results of children not being raised in an intact family. If you haven't noticed it is not going well. I certainly realize that we all have different needs and choices. I made mine and will not apologize for being out of the workforce for six years. By the way my son calls me mom.
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Reply 3 - Posted by:
Maggie2u 5/9/2021 9:09:08 PM (No. 780282)
The new narrative from the 'rats...Republicans want women to be barefoot, pregnant and in the kitchen.
Amazing how they all worship choice unless it's a choice they don't approve off. Right?
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Reply 4 - Posted by:
SALady 5/9/2021 9:21:10 PM (No. 780296)
I am a woman. My first priority was always to my children and husband. I worked, because sadly our society has devolved to the point where a woman has to just to make ends meet. But it was always just a job for me, never a "career". My "career" was raising my family, and I loved it!!!!
And, yes, I did quit working from the time my oldest was born until my youngest started school. Those were wonderful years that so many women lose out on because they chose a "career" over their families. I pity them, much like I pity Helaine Olen for being so jaded with the evil of femi-nazism!!!
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Reply 5 - Posted by:
NotaBene 5/9/2021 9:39:24 PM (No. 780302)
Bezos pays for this? This lady has a serious chip on her shoulder.
Happy Mother’s Day.
11 people like this.
Reply 6 - Posted by:
Zarin 5/9/2021 10:35:00 PM (No. 780324)
Ditto to all of the above - take care of your children. The propaganda is working to destroy the nuclear family - the foundation of a healthy society. The mother is the first educator of the children in morals & manners. How dare they demean women who stay at home with their kids or take a 'lesser' job in order to be near home & work fewer hours? Oh, that is right - they are hoping that with more social strife & chaos which are often the result of dysfunctional families their Party - communist and/or fascist - can gain more power.
13 people like this.
Reply 7 - Posted by:
columba 5/9/2021 10:39:13 PM (No. 780334)
This article reads like the author believes that mothers ought to work outside of the home.
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Reply 8 - Posted by:
MindMadeUp 5/9/2021 11:20:10 PM (No. 780357)
Marxists believe a woman's first priority is to the state, the government. Family loyalties just get in the way.
15 people like this.
Reply 9 - Posted by:
gramma b 5/10/2021 12:09:07 AM (No. 780369)
“Lousy old myth,” my eye. I stayed at home with my babies for the first 20 years of my marriage. When my sixth and youngest went to school I went to law school then practiced for 30 years. That job was rewarding in every way that a job can be rewarding. It was interesting, it paid very well, and I got to participate in legal work that mattered. But nothing brings the joy that family brings. The feeling of achievement from winning a case can’t hold a candle to the feeling of pride arising from having raised a good human being. The writer of this article is a sad excuse for a woman.
19 people like this.
Reply 10 - Posted by:
WhamDBambam 5/10/2021 6:58:03 AM (No. 780474)
How are yo' chirrin doing, Helaine?
4 people like this.
Reply 11 - Posted by:
philsner 5/10/2021 7:41:54 AM (No. 780506)
I have cancelled WaPoo.
2 people like this.
Reply 12 - Posted by:
udanja99 5/10/2021 8:20:16 AM (No. 780543)
Lousy myth? A “myth” that has lasted for thousands of years?
I quit my job to be a stay at home mom and my daughter never set a toe in daycare. We had to alter our lifestyle and went without yearly vacations and other luxuries to make sure that she had round the clock nurturing from her parents. We may not have had all of the extras, but our daughter never doubted that she was the top priority in our home.
I’ve always felt that sticking children in daycare sends a subtle message to them that they are not valued as highly as mom’s income and all of the superficial goodies which come with it. I also noticed that my daughter’s peers were prone to violence and wondered if that was a result of being dropped off with strangers every day and receiving a fraction of the care and attention they would have received at home, not to mention the discipline.
Finally, a woman who puts her career ahead of her children is the ultimate example of selfishness.
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Reply 13 - Posted by:
Heil Liberals 5/10/2021 8:58:53 AM (No. 780580)
My guess, and it's only a guess, is that she is a True Believer Third Wave Feminist. My guess included that she is practiced in the art of multiple sex partners with lots of orgasms but no commitment. My guess is also that she has had at least one abortion of an inconvenient clump of cells so that she could continue with her glorious career as a know-nothing lemming at the WaPo. As another poster noted, she is a sad excuse for womanhood.
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Reply 14 - Posted by:
Strike3 5/10/2021 10:46:14 AM (No. 780717)
Excellent comment, #12. I firmly believe that young children should have at least one parent at home, full time. Daycare is not a good option, even if it is on-site daycare at your place of work. Those women who say they can "do it all" are delusional and their children are living proof.
A husband and wife must agree from day one. Either the marriage is doomed to failure or the children's quality of life suffers. If both parents choose the career path, they should not have children. If only one parent works they must agree to do without the big house, two cars, vacations, etc. until their income allows it. Most people do not get it and divorce statistics tell the tale. People tend to compete with their friends and relatives instead of doing what is best for the kids.
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Of course, this on Mother's Day !!! What else would you expect from WaPo !!!