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New York Times, by Gabrielle Ulubay

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Posted By:LittleHoodedMonk, 1/13/2018 6:08:36 AM

I had invited him over only for sex, so when I woke the next morning to the sight of him putting on his pants, I said, “Do you need me to walk you out?” “No, I’m just going to use the bathroom,” he said. “I’d like to stay, if that’s O.K.” And it was. So he stayed for the rest of the day, never more than a few inches from me. We left the room only to use the bathroom or to shuffle to the kitchen for snacks. Meanwhile, my roommates laughed, gossiping about my “sexcapade with the cute guy from Tinder.” “I think you’re the girl of my dreams,” he said. “I can’t believe we met on Tinder.” I had never been the girl of anyone’s dreams —

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Disclaimer: Do NOT read the article. The New York Times wastes all this ink on what appears to be a page from her diary (or plagiarized from a romance novel). Ulubay, a recent college graduate who wrote film reviews at Northeastern University is dispensing dating (sex) advice for millennials. She sounds more like a future ticking time bomb for initiating a sexual harassment lawsuit against the Old Grey Lady, or whoever hires her. Quote the Maitre D´ from "Ferris Bueller´s Day Off": "I weep for the future."

      


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Reply 1 - Posted by: M2, 1/13/2018 6:28:41 AM     (No. 11508774)

OP, you were right. I shouldn’t have read the article. It is self -absorbed crap. I still don’t get the point other than that she sleeps around, likes flattery, and doesn’t understand why the men she sleeps with don’t come around for a second shot. A truly ridiculous article.

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Reply 2 - Posted by: Knotwyrkin, 1/13/2018 6:31:16 AM     (No. 11508775)

Blah, Blah, Blah, You´re a slut, Blah, Blah, Blah, I´m a slut, Blah, Blah, Blah.

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Reply 3 - Posted by: Truthfetish, 1/13/2018 6:35:09 AM     (No. 11508782)

Depressing.

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Reply 4 - Posted by: Rinktum, 1/13/2018 6:44:16 AM     (No. 11508790)

Clearly, we have lost the concept of shame. This is not a healthy lifestyle either physically or mentally. Sounds like someone who likes to sleep around and is proud of it. In my day, she would be called a tramp or worse, someone who has zero self-respect. This is not the pathway to a happy and healthy life.

Young ladies, do not throw your self-respect out the window. It is the backbone of your character in so many ways.

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Reply 5 - Posted by: strike3, 1/13/2018 6:48:53 AM     (No. 11508792)

If you go straight to the sex it simply means that neither of you found anything interesting in the other.

I suspect this was pure fiction. I hope so for her sake.

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Reply 6 - Posted by: MainelySane, 1/13/2018 6:55:57 AM     (No. 11508796)

No wonder STDs are epidemic.

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Reply 7 - Posted by: MainelySane, 1/13/2018 7:22:34 AM     (No. 11508812)

https://www.linkedin.com/in/gabrielle-ulubay-47503b55

She works in the Boston Mayor´s office ... government "relations". I wonder.. if the mayor hit on her after reading this, would it be sexual harassment? "You are the girl of my dreams..." Would that do him in?

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Reply 8 - Posted by: soliton, 1/13/2018 7:25:57 AM     (No. 11508818)



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Reply 9 - Posted by: jeffkinnh, 1/13/2018 7:31:33 AM     (No. 11508825)

While I won´t condemn young people for being more sexually active, thinking that a guy and a gal "hooking up" on a first date will lead to anything permanent is seriously screwed up. She is looking for Prince Charming while mucking out the stables and seems surprised and disappointed that he isn´t there.

Her sex toy for the night used nice words, sounding like he was using polite fictions about their situation. He stayed close to her, paid attention, and made her feel good. That actually seems better than I might expect from a one night stand.

Her complaint seems to be he wasn´t honest. What did she expect? One night stands are all about sexual fantasy. The fact that he kept the fantasy going beyond the first go round seems pretty nice. It is only in HER head that fantasy and reality are commingled.

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Reply 10 - Posted by: rolfnader, 1/13/2018 7:39:51 AM     (No. 11508831)

Yeah, you´re real nice and purdy. Now go make me a sandwich and then iron my shirt.

Geeez,Gab - Leave the bar before last call , next time.

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Reply 11 - Posted by: F15 Gork, 1/13/2018 7:46:44 AM     (No. 11508837)

Are these the same “ladies” who get the vapors every time somebody looks at them crosswise?

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Reply 12 - Posted by: meidei, 1/13/2018 7:50:47 AM     (No. 11508840)

Remember - "Why buy the cow when you can get the milk for free" (?) - in her case she´s broadcasting she´s raw, homo-margenalized &
used.

I just don´t understand today´s females lack of self-respect & the necessity to broadcast intimate details of their lives. What happened to "shame"?

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Reply 13 - Posted by: greggojo, 1/13/2018 8:07:18 AM     (No. 11508855)

I read it on a Russian news site (which hasn´t sent me a virus, yet)(to find it search the title with the author).

What a depressing, sad, sick article/woman. She obviously feels an emotional attachment to men she sleeps with and has had her poor head too filled with nonsense by her environment (friends and professors) to even recognize that she does. Note to Gabrielle: go back and read the poets, women (who are not morally demolished) form an emotional attachment when having sex, men (usually) do not. The feminists can scream and yell, but they can´t change human nature.

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Reply 14 - Posted by: Cartcart, 1/13/2018 9:07:03 AM     (No. 11508944)

In a world with women such as this, why would men bother with prostitution? It’s a sleazy world out there.


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Reply 15 - Posted by: tank, 1/13/2018 9:12:34 AM     (No. 11508953)

It´s hard to look deep within yourself to find something when you´re this shallow.

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Reply 16 - Posted by: readaholic, 1/13/2018 10:55:12 AM     (No. 11509060)

Sounds like HIS hook-up results were just fine. He doesn´t need her advice.

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Reply 17 - Posted by: dvc, 1/13/2018 11:49:08 AM     (No. 11509122)

I only read the first part posted here, it is NYT, I never click. Sounds like another female finding out that there is no need to buy the cow if milk is free.

Cheap "hookup" isn´t a good way to meet someone for an enduring relationship.

Sad.

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Reply 18 - Posted by: glcinpdx, 1/13/2018 12:48:42 PM     (No. 11509209)

Membership in hook up site $20 dollars, condoms $5...proclaiming to the world that you are a Skank in the in the New York Slimes...Priceless.

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Reply 19 - Posted by: Tianne, 1/13/2018 10:51:33 PM     (No. 11509658)


Good grief! Are modern young women really so naively ignorant and self-absorbed?

The feminist movement has convinced women to lower their standards so carelessly that they are perceived now as nothing more than "hook-ups" to be enjoyed and then discarded - young ´feminists´ are seen as requiring no commitment, no responsibility, no respect.

Men who are seeking long-time companions and mothers for their future children, are not looking for them in bars, on hook-up apps, or in personal ads - a one night stand, no matter what they say, is not their idea of the perfect woman.

Women, if you are truly seeking men who will fill your lives with devotion, respect, and loving admiration, forget your whiny selves for a few moments and volunteer at your church, your nearest school, a local hospital, local charities - those are the places where you will meet the sincere, concerned, unselfish men whom you are seeking. Never mind, "use your words" - if you can throw off the shackles of self-pity long enough and your hearts are truly invested in helping others, by volunteering in those places, you may find yourself growing in dignity, self-respect, and confidence - the very qualities that attract good men of honor and merit.



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